How to get a commitment phobic man to commit

How to get a commitment phobic man to commit

Trying to get a man who doesn’t want to be in a relationship… to be in a relationship… is like trying to fit a rhinoceros through a mouse-hole. So why do girls keep trying to do it?
If a man doesn’t want to be committed to you, why try to force him? Oh, and note the difference between him wanting to be with you, and him wanting to commit to you. Women like to hate on men who just want some booty or to have some fun. Can you really blame them if you’re a hottie and want to ‘get some’? They have needs. Like dogs… they like to hump. Ok men I’ll be nice.
Seriously though. Some men are very upfront about they willingness or unwillingness to commit. They might tell you they like you. They may lime with you often. They may even ‘run up’ their phone bill, talking to you. You’re convinced they like you, and you’re probably right. They do like you.
However, when someone – man or woman – doesn’t want to commit to an exclusive relationship, like and love don’t have as much say as we think. Love is not always as strong a force as gravity to make sure that they have no choice but to plant their feet firmly on the ground next to you.
Let’s look at the potential for a couple moving from a steady relationship to marriage. Most girls treat almost every guy they date as prospective husband material. They’re more smitten with the idea of marriage than with wanting to marry someone because they’re smitten by the person. Guys, on the other hand, know the type of woman they want to marry, and so they keep having fun, or move through several ‘serious’ relationships until they find ‘that’ person.
Fact is… some men don’t believe in marriage – especially if they came from a broken home. Psychologists see a clear relationship between commitment phobia, and a traumatic childhood. Studies show that people who suffer from commitment phobia are deeply influenced by their childhood experiences that have seared their subconscious minds and given birth to such unrealistic fears. These include the death of a parent, a messy divorce, or parental abuse. In their minds, avoiding long-term, ‘serious’ relationships prevents any chance of being hurt.
Commitment-phobic people are easy to spot. They have short-lived relationships, wear their scars from previous relationships on their sleeve, date ‘unavailable’ people (who are ‘committed’ to someone else), back out of plans at the last minute, or are ‘hot’ one day, and ‘cold’ the next. Then of course, there’s them being straightforward, and saying, “I’ve been hurt in the past and I’m afraid to get hurt again”. Pussies… that’s what they are. Once you’ve made it through one really bad heartbreak, you can survive another. Anyway… I digress.
For a man, a relationship is sort of like a responsibility. He has a responsibility to be faithful. He has a responsibility to call you when he’ll be home late. He has a responsibility to be supportive. Now, of course that’s the ideal situation. However, there are some men who will only take up that responsibility for a woman who they feel deserves that respect. Then there are men who will waste your time. You think you’re heading somewhere, but you aren’t. You get sucked into a relationship that does not have a future.
You can’t get anyone to commit to you if they don’t want to. It’s like asking a delinquent in school to study for exams. They just won’t do it, and even if you force them to, you won’t get the result you want. That also kinda explains why a man or woman moved on from someone they really loved, and refused to marry, only to go to marry one or two or three lovers after. Maybe it’s because they just went with who was there when they were in the mood to be committed?
Instead of focusing on how the other person feels, and trying to change his (her) attitude to commitment, you need to focus on how you feel and change your approach. I’m not suggesting that you ‘love with your head’. I am simply suggesting that you use it.
I’m going through this right now. Got a man I love, and who I knows cares deeply for me. However, he has his issues about commitment, and is going through his own process because he wants to be sure that he’s absolutely ready to give a relationship with me a proper try. I appreciate the fact that he wants to be sure he’s ready to commit, and I’m leaving him to his process. However, I know I won’t wait forever.
Nagging a man is the best way to get the opposite of what you want. If you think he’s a great guy, but perhaps a little confused about what he wants in life right now, leave him to go through his process of self-exploration. Don’t force him or give an ultimatum. Give yourself an ultimatum, and know when to exit the room, if you figure the wait for him will be too long. You don’t have to stop being friends, but draw your boundaries and be upfront with him. Let him know that if he doesn’t know what he wants, then you will need to take your own measures to safeguard your heart. If he cares about you, he’ll respect your decision. It may also be a trigger that lets him know that he has to make a decision, without you handing out some sort of draconian ultimatum.
If you decide to accept whatever crumbs someone hands you, be prepared to be disappointed. Don’t play the casual game with someone you have deep feelings for either. Some men are just way too charming to keep your guard up from them. Don’t think he’ll change his skin one day, and become a new man, who suddenly becomes devoted to you either. If you want to feel emotionally safe or satisfied. don’t try to force feelings on someone else. Force yourself to accept reality.
If a man’s history tells you he’s not the committing kind, he’s emotionally unavailable, and shows that he doesn’t truly consider your needs, most likely he’s not worth the emotional investment.
You shouldn’t have to go on a personal PR campaign to get someone to want to be with you. It’s either they want to or they don’t. Accept it for what it is. You can’t or shouldn’t force a man to be in a serious relationship or to marry you. If you ‘succeed’, doh vex when yuh getting ‘horn’. Your chances of a great relationship are better, when the other person voluntarily wants to be with you.

Trying to get a man who doesn’t want to be in a relationship… to be in a relationship… is like trying to fit a rhinoceros through a mouse-hole. So why do girls keep trying to do it?

If a man doesn’t want to be committed to you, why try to force him? Oh, and note the difference between him wanting to be with you, and him wanting to commit to you. Women like to hate on men who just want some booty or to have some fun. Can you really blame them if you’re a hottie and want to ‘get some’? They have needs. Like dogs… they like to hump. Ok men… I’ll be nice.

Seriously though. Some men are very upfront about they willingness or unwillingness to commit. They might tell you they like you. They may lime with you often. They may even ‘run up’ their phone bill, talking to you. You’re convinced they like you, and you’re probably right. They do like you.


However, when someone – man or woman – doesn’t want to commit to an exclusive relationship, like and love don’t have as much say as we think. Love is not always as strong a force as gravity to make sure that they have no choice but to plant their feet firmly on the ground next to you.

“Note the difference between him wanting to be with you, and him wanting to commit to you.”

Let’s look at the potential for a couple moving from a steady relationship to marriage. Most girls treat almost every guy they date as prospective husband material. They’re more smitten with the idea of marriage than with wanting to marry someone because they’re smitten by the person. Guys, on the other hand, know the type of woman they want to marry, and so they keep having fun, or move through several ‘serious’ relationships until they find ‘that’ person.

Fact is… some men don’t believe in marriage – especially if they came from a broken home. Psychologists see a clear relationship between commitment phobia, and a traumatic childhood. Studies show that people who suffer from commitment phobia are deeply influenced by their childhood experiences that have seared their subconscious minds and given birth to such unrealistic fears. These include the death of a parent, a messy divorce, or parental abuse. In their minds, avoiding long-term, ‘serious’ relationships prevents any chance of being hurt.

Commitment-phobic people are easy to spot. They have short-lived relationships, wear their scars from previous relationships on their sleeve, date ‘unavailable’ people (who are ‘committed’ to someone else), back out of plans at the last minute, or are ‘hot’ one day, and ‘cold’ the next. Then of course, there’s them being straightforward, and saying, “I’ve been hurt in the past and I’m afraid to get hurt again”. Pussies… that’s what they are. Once you’ve made it through one really bad heartbreak, you can survive another. Anyway… I digress.

“For a man, a relationship is sort of like a responsibility.”

For a man, a relationship is sort of like a responsibility. He has a responsibility to be faithful. He has a responsibility to call you when he’ll be home late. He has a responsibility to be supportive. Now, of course that’s the ideal situation. However, there are some men who will only take up that responsibility for a woman who they feel deserves that respect. Then there are men who will waste your time. You think you’re heading somewhere, but you aren’t. You get sucked into a relationship that does not have a future.

You can’t get anyone to commit to you if they don’t want to. It’s like asking a delinquent in school to study for exams. They just won’t do it, and even if you force them to, you won’t get the result you want. That also kinda explains why a man or woman moved on from someone they really loved, and refused to marry, only to go to marry one or two or three lovers after. Maybe it’s because they just went with who was there when they were in the mood to be committed?

Instead of focusing on how the other person feels, and trying to change his (her) attitude to commitment, you need to focus on how you feel and change your approach. I’m not suggesting that you ‘love with your head’. I am simply suggesting that you use it.

I’m going through this right now. Got a man I love, and who I knows cares deeply for me. However, he has his issues about commitment, and is going through his own process because he wants to be sure that he’s absolutely ready to give a relationship with me a proper try. I appreciate the fact that he wants to be sure he’s ready to commit, and I’m leaving him to his process. However, I know I won’t wait forever.

Nagging a man is the best way to get the opposite of what you want. If you think he’s a great guy, but perhaps a little confused about what he wants in life right now, leave him to go through his process of self-exploration. Don’t force him or give an ultimatum. Give yourself an ultimatum, and know when to exit the room, if you figure the wait for him will be too long. You don’t have to stop being friends, but draw your boundaries and be upfront with him. Let him know that if he doesn’t know what he wants, then you will need to take your own measures to safeguard your heart. If he cares about you, he’ll respect your decision. It may also be a trigger that lets him know that he has to make a decision, without you handing out some sort of draconian ultimatum.

If you decide to accept whatever crumbs someone hands you, be prepared to be disappointed. Don’t play the casual game with someone you have deep feelings for either. Some men are just way too charming to keep your guard up from them. Don’t think he’ll change his skin one day, and become a new man, who suddenly becomes devoted to you either. If you want to feel emotionally safe or satisfied. don’t try to force feelings on someone else. Force yourself to accept reality.

If a man’s history tells you he’s not the committing kind, he’s emotionally unavailable, and shows that he doesn’t truly consider your needs, most likely he’s not worth the emotional investment.

You shouldn’t have to go on a personal PR campaign to get someone to want to be with you. It’s either they want to or they don’t. Accept it for what it is. You can’t or shouldn’t force a man to be in a serious relationship or to marry you. If you ‘succeed’, doh vex when yuh getting ‘horn’. Your chances of a great relationship are better, when the other person voluntarily wants to be with you.

 

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65 Comments
  • v
    Posted at 17:42h, 03 September Reply

    Commitment phobic men actually pursue commitment, until they get it. So this article is very bad. It shows the writer has no clue about this type of man and it does not help a woman involved with one. My phobic boyfriend of 36 told me he wanted to live with me, marry and have kids before he turned 40, he was in love with me and showed it. I was still unsure. Until I agreed. Then voilá! he dumped me within 3 months.
    So your “It’s either they want to or they don’t” advice is really lame.

    • hilary
      Posted at 06:04h, 25 January Reply

      THANK YOU. I agree. It’s an opinion piece.

      • sadiesays
        Posted at 21:01h, 04 June Reply

        Yes, I agree too. I had a bf who called me, texted me, wrote long romantic love letters, told me everyday how in love he was with me for 2 years, then moved across country to be with me, looked at houses online, picked out furniture, told everyone we were settling down together, I knew his family, everything. (I should add that we were longtime old friends and have a large community of people that we share, so it wasn’t just a blind long distance thing.)
        Then one day after he had moved in with me and we were making plans to find a bigger place, the subject of marriage came up. He floundered, said he had never thought of it, and boom, 3 months later he left me, moved to another city and wouldn’t speak to me again for nearly a year. No more letters, no more love, like a stranger.
        I asked him to come to just one hour of counseling to try and figure this out or to make it easier for me to let go. He wouldn’t even honor me with one friggin hour. It was shattering, to say the least. I was a really good gf, I have learned how to be open and give room for guys to be happy, have my own life etc. I seriously did everything right, even he admitted that at some point.
        I have been in therapy and am now on anti-depressants to deal with what happened. We are speaking again (I know, why talk to this ass, but I am attached 🙁 ) and the way he sees it, it’s normal, people break up,
        but I see it as:
        I wasn’t some girl you dated for a few months, you asked me to leave my home, everything to move away with you, I was faithful in a ld relationship where we only saw eachother once a month for 2 years, turned down other dates from men during that time and now, all of a sudden you leave me?! It was unreal. Even my gf’s who are single say they are traumatized by what happened. I feel sort of ruined, like I will have a hard time finding someone I can trust. It is a clear case of a commitment phobe having things easy and then when it came time to make his fantasy real (he asked for all of the future together, spend-my-life-with you stuff) suddenly he feels smothered and I’m too needy. I have to add, he had trouble finding a job when he got here, which can put a lot of strain, but when he said I was too needy it really killed me. I was taking care of him! And I’m the needy one. I feel like I have hurt myself grieving for an entire year over this, but he really kind of shattered me. I know now to trust the red flags and get out asap.
        ** And one more thing, though I never really this until now, if your guy asks you to move in together, say you will consider it when you both feel ready for an engagement, that is what you need to agree to such a thing. I know it’s hard and you don’t want to risk losing him, but weed out the fakers before you go through what I did.

        • Jessica
          Posted at 14:03h, 22 March Reply

          Awe, I know how you feel. I went through a similar situation and now I feel like it will be very very difficult for me to trust another man again. I realized that I can do better and that I will not ignore red flags ever again. Keep your head up, I’m sure you will meet someone amazing if you haven’t already.

        • sarah
          Posted at 10:39h, 14 November Reply

          Am so sorry to read your story and hope you are now on the road to recovery. I had to get in touch as an almost identical thing has just happened to me. He had proposed (although a ring never materialised – slight hint there)and we had unfortunately suffered a miscarriage. I had sold my house and we were about to exchange contracts on a house together and BOOM! Suddenly he is feeling “insecure” and “unsure”. He tells me this over the phone and then ignores me. After my Dad phoned him, he agreed to see me once and I got the same story but no real answers about why he had done what he had done. It is only after reading sites like this that I have realised that I was with a commitmentphobe. He is ignoring me again now and all I can do is try to mend my shattered heart. It is helped to know that there are others who have been through this. Let’s continue to talk and share. I found this article quite uplifting in terms of rebuilding trust and forgiveness in myself and realising that there is nothing wrong with me:
          https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/living-forward/201609/how-rebuild-trust-someone-who-hurt-you
          I too am wondering how I will ever trust again – I guess we have to tell ourselves that not all men are like that – will need to read up some more on these “red flags” though!
          The hardest part though is that apparently to truly heal and move forward, we have to forgive our commitment-phobes. For me, this is almost impossible but at the same time, I realise that holding on to the anger will ultimately just hurt me. It is so difficult though, when my ex just won’t speak to me.
          Anyway, if you have read this – thank you – and good luck in love to you all.

    • D.
      Posted at 04:23h, 06 August Reply

      V,

      You are correct. My guy did the same thing.

    • Casey Hansen
      Posted at 02:37h, 02 January Reply

      This is kind of stupid… If a man is good to you and is commited why destroy the relationship? In my case, I just came out of a bad divorce and she wanted to get married like 1.5 years after that. I just needed a little more time, however she ended it. Ok, so that confirmed what I was hesitant about. Commitment is not signing a Government contract and the dog and pony show of a wedding. I have attended $60,000.00 weddings and the marriages didn’t last 2 years. Commitment is in the heart. If you feel like you need to concrete a relationship, then something is missing in you…. Yes, men are leary of commitment because men usually lose everything if a woman decides that she is not happy or in love or even bored…. I think it is dumb to enter into a business partnership joined by 2 that can easily be disposed of by 1. I hope marriages will be banned, made illegal, or just forgotten about as a stupid tradition. With the social media society as it is today, anyone can hook up with anyone at anytime. Why as a man gamble everything on a woman that could possibly be tempted?

  • Girlygirl
    Posted at 07:14h, 14 October Reply

    To “mmmmm”…I feel for you, been there! Seems I attract these types of men like the plague; though I am getting better at identifying them and telling them to hit the road before they do their destruction on my heart. In short..I think all men are some type of commitmentphobe; even if you DON’T chase, which I never have, or give them space, etc. most of them do not know what they want. The main point is to keep yourself on top of your own world and protect yourself. I had a friend who had a guy who she dated for about 2 years until he proposed with a huge diamond ring…he treated her like GOLD, until they got married. On their honeymoon in Hawaii he became a SOB and told her she “tricked” him into marrying her!! When in fact, he pursued her like crazy! He pushed her down and stomped on her bare foot! THAT is the kind of crap these types of guys give out! A really good book is “Men Who Can’t Love”. Total eye opener.

    In any event, I feel this article is right on….good advice. Keep your heart guarded, at all times.

    • tracy
      Posted at 10:12h, 08 May Reply

      He must have been muslim same thing happened to me. All muslim men treat you like gold until they marry you.

      • TiredofBeingTired
        Posted at 18:28h, 26 May Reply

        I just wanted to share that I just found this article. I find its content to be true. I have been married to a commitment phobic man for 10 years and each year I thought things would get better; he would share his affections with me and that he and I would work together in building our family. Well 10 years later, he hasn’t kept a steady job, he’s withdrawn and oddly enough has began a church in secret. We’ve recently seperated. I’m glad I came across your article. It’s real and to the point. Thank you for being candid. I now know there’s nothing I can do to change this man and I refuse to give him another year of my life.

  • Audrey
    Posted at 10:08h, 31 October Reply

    Hello,

    my situation is basically very simple but very hard to adapt.. He likes me and i like him.. we both want to be together.. ive had bad pass experiences and im moving on from that and trying to make this work and putting my 120%. I decided to leave him several times and didnt work.. he almost begged me to stay… well he did.

    He said he would try and work this and he does treat me like his gf but sometimes he doesnt.. i was ready to let go of everything until he expressed himself and told me he was “fraid to get hurt’. anywayssss im not here to change him … you know what i mean but if he really doesnt want to let go of me.. and hes willing to try and make this work.. then i dont know…

    plz help me!! lol

  • nic
    Posted at 22:25h, 16 January Reply

    face it they just want to have their cake and eat it too. avoid like the plague.

  • was 613
    Posted at 07:33h, 21 August Reply

    Just happened to me…he calls me everyday..text me every time he had his meals…when he got home or about to sleep…we have wonderful dates…then after a week of having a relationship…he became cold and told me he was still in love with his ex…grrrrr!!! yet he still text me everyday…i dont know what he is up to???

  • alyssa
    Posted at 13:17h, 10 September Reply

    Just found this blog..I’m a 21 year old women, and have been “talking” or seeing this guy (who
    I have known since high school) for a good amount of months now. We
    went on our first official date back in mid-March. He talked about
    eventually maybe dating and becoming ‘official’ and all those things. We
    have slept together, I have met his family and go over to watch movies
    all the time at his home, I spent the day with him, his mother and
    grandmother on his birthday, and felt like we were ‘getting there’.
    Really. Even for my birthday I have always wanted to go on a cruise so
    me and him booked a cruise for mid-December and be back before Christmas
    still. When we first started talked he had mentioned he is scared of
    getting hurt, since his last official relationship he was in she cheated
    on him. However, tonight after we watched “Think Like A Man” together
    he wanted to talk to me about something. Thinking he was actually going
    to ask if I want to make things official or something along those
    lines…it was the opposite. He went on about making sure that I know we
    are just talking and aren’t dating or anything. But he loves hanging
    out with me and talking to me and loves the sex and doesn’t want to
    change what we’re doing but just wants to focus on working and just
    wanted to make sure we’re on the same page as far as where we stand and
    that he still will and wants to go on the cruise with me. Which one of
    the things I followed his statements by was that I don’t want to be a
    string-a-long girl, where he basically uses me while looking for someone
    else/better. I feel like I am what a guy would want. I watch ESPN and
    sports with him, play video games with him(fifa, nba jams, etc), I don’t
    whine and make him always take me places..I’m content just hanging out
    and watching TV. When I asked if we’re still talking he said yes and
    that he isn’t talking to any other girls the way he is with me, or
    having sex with anyone else, or doing things with other girls that he
    does with me. So what do you feel is the problem of why he really
    doesn’t want to make it official and seems like he’s pulling back, and
    where should I go from here? PLEASE HELP! What would you all do? And any
    advice from guys on what’s going on would be helpful!

    Additional Details

    PS he has an older brother and sister that he’s close with…told his
    brother were intimate even. And he talks to his sister a lot I know as
    well. But whenever his brother is around, so is he. Unless sometimes
    when he goes in the shower and me and his brother are just watching tv
    together (doesn’t happen too too often). And again his sister lives far.
    Also know his best friend. Do you think I should maybe message one of
    them (fb) and ask them to keep me asking between us please but ask
    them….something?? Idk

    • tracy
      Posted at 10:23h, 08 May Reply

      He is treating you like a girlfriend and being unfair to your feelings. You can keep talking to him but you had better date other men on the sly. He is being shifty and in the long run that can be alot of wasted time and hurt. I just realized that unless you both make it official men can keep talking and doing things with a girl just like a relationship and not even want to be your boyfriend ever. And the longer you keep it going unofficially the harder it will be to change or get out. BUT if you have a committment relationship talk with him be prepared for things to change either for the better or the worse and you may lose his friendship. Men do not like relationship talks.
      My advice keep seeing him as you probably have grown to have feelings but ease off do not see him as much, etc. But then he may start seing other women if you leave the door too far open. You have no choice but to speak with him, indirectly then

  • cliff
    Posted at 14:05h, 23 September Reply

    Ok but what about when its the reverse, I’m with a woman who is divorced has two amazing kids that I love like my own. Its been 4 years now that her and I have been dating and she still won’t tell the kids about us or her ex. I’m only there over night when the kids are not and when ever I tell her I want to move forward she gives me this bull about not being sure about “us”… I love her wholely, want to be a father to her children and have more kids, but she just won’t budge. I’m her dirty secret. I thought woman were suppose to be the ones doing the chasing. 4 years and all I am is 2 bins in her closet hidden and tucked away when the kids come home. I want to open with the world about us but she just won’t budge. So just a side note here. Its not always men who are commitment phobic

  • lo0
    Posted at 09:29h, 04 November Reply

    awesome article, being a guy, it made me understand what i want from life…

  • Mark
    Posted at 11:05h, 01 January Reply

    i am a straight man that would very much want to commit again, especially after being married and my wife was the one that cheated. now single again, it is very hard for me to meet another woman that can be faithful.

    • anonymous
      Posted at 21:29h, 05 October Reply

      I sure wish my “boyfriend” would commit. I am faithful, attractive. Just don’t understand him.

  • tracy
    Posted at 10:13h, 08 May Reply

    I am dating a committment phobic guy now, most charming man on earth, handsome, rich, nice dresser, smells nice, very well groomed, totally perfect but as soon as I try to get close and talk my feelings he gets cold.

    • Amber
      Posted at 22:42h, 10 July Reply

      I’m dating someone exactly like your man. I feel you

      • dikly
        Posted at 21:57h, 07 February Reply

        M dating exactly the same man. He loves n really takes care of my feelings. He wouldn’t dump or ditch me ever would rather want me to be the one ending the relationship whenever I fee like. But I want us to be married n he calls marriage a disaster. He believes marriage would kill our love. I love him n I love him a lot. But it kills me to think that we don’t have a future together n my going out of his life wouldn’t bother him. I cry a lot because I don’t know if I should let go or keep on trying.

        • Hardev Sra
          Posted at 05:46h, 20 January Reply

          Hi Dikly, Any update on the situation? I find myself in the same situation as yours (I’m a male though). Don’t know if I should just walk away or try harder…

  • Guest3
    Posted at 13:36h, 24 July Reply

    I am going through a similar issue. I have been dating a guy for 5 years. We have a great relationship, we love and care about each other deeply and are perfect for each other. We have talked about the future before but never too seriously as we are both 25 and neither of us our ready to settle down and get married right now. Recently, our friends have started to get engaged and he has been starting to pull away. Last week he lied to me about making plans with another girl when I was going to be out of town even though he says it was platonic and he would never cheat on me. He then admitted to me he was having doubts about being with one person for the rest of his life, even though I have put NO pressure on him whatsoever to get married, settle down etc. He says he needs time to figure out what he wants, but he also says he wants to be with me and loves me. We have spent a few days apart and after this time apart he says he wants to do whatever it takes to be with me and work out his issues, but when we spent time back together he changes his mind and says he doesn’t know what he wants and is confused. He is from a broken home and a very very bad divorce, which I’m sure has a lot to do with his issues, but I have known this and thought he was able to over come these issues, as I don’t believe you can use these issues as a crutch for your problems for the rest of your life.

    I am so confused because he seems to be flip flopping around with what he is telling me, and I’m scared that if I stay with him while he gets help for his issues I will just end up hurt or this will happen again in the future. I am also worried that if I give him time and space, he will come back to me and I don’t know if I am prepared to take him back or wait around for him to decide if he wants to be with me. I feel like if he knows that he should already know.

    HELP!

  • cookies2390
    Posted at 04:08h, 15 January Reply

    my ex and I broke up four months ago, we were together for almost two years. & till this day i still love that guy, i found out that the reason why he broke up with me was because he felt pressured to be someone else he didnt want to be commited and instead have freedom without letting no one know what he was doing. He loves me but like they say love sometimes is not to strong to win, he doesnt want to be in a lockdown position or promise someone forever. He neither doesnt wanna be in a relationship with other girls.Hes a great guy but he still needs to figure out what he wants in life. I love him but its just hard not to know wether to move on or see if he realizes that he lost a good girl and talk back to me again

  • Lynda
    Posted at 21:09h, 28 February Reply

    I had a huge bust up with my partner and he left me, i was so frustrated and i email Dr. Stanley and he said he could help, I must admit, I was very, very skeptical as didn’t really believe he would be back after all he said, but it was just a few days when he phoned and asked to come over to talk, we talked and talked and the silly misunderstanding was all forgiven and we are back together now for good, all thanks to drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com, I would highly recommend his services, they do really, really work. Lynda.

  • Deborah Wilson
    Posted at 22:45h, 18 April Reply

    i have been married for 4years and i have a break up with my husband 3months ago and i was worried and so confuse because i love him so much. i was really going too depressed and a friend directed me to this spell caster Dr. Laco and i made all my problems known to him and he told me not to worry that he was going to make my husband to come back to me and in just 48hours i receive a call from my husband and he was appealing that i should come back to the house. i have never in my life believe in spell and but now it have just helped me and i am now so happy. All Thanks to him and if you also want to have your Husband back to yourself here !! his email Address lacopowerfulspellcaster@yahoo.com i am so happy to testify of your work and kindness,

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  • Zoya
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    Hi. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years now. He says he loves me, I know he does, but becomes extremely strange as soon as anything “forever”/”in future” comes up. I know I shouldn’t do it but at times just to let him know clearly how I see things, I do tell him that I would want to live with him. And that moment, he acts SO selfish that at times I’m just stunned. He says things like,”you have increased your expectations from me and that’s your problem, not mine”, “I can’t help with the way you think.” I just don’t know what I should do. I have been in many relationships before and hence I know this one is different, atleast for me. But I’m so scared that after all the efforts, all the love, tomorrow I might be nowhere. Forget about tomorrow, at the present I don’t know whether I should entertain his selfish attitude. He doesn’t understand my emotional needs or maybe I too don’t, won’t put the entire blame on him. But I’m just so screwed up.
    Ps: we have been in a long distance relationship from the start, however there’s no trust issues here. I’m very close to his family too. Everything is just awesome BUT for him. Please help 🙁

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  • Rachel
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    Hello

    I’m a ‘commitment phobic’ woman in my mid-twenties. I found this because I was looking for help in committing to my best friend and love of two years. When it gets serious I panic and I have other options so that gives me cause for confusion, but he’s the best guy I know and I want to be with him. I’m just scared of losing so many other possibilities and of never having that new love feeling. My friends all think I’m crazy and are being v helpful in talking me around.

    To the girl above who plays video games with her guy and does everything perfectly… The way things are going it will never happen. It’s not that you’re not lovely but… Men have an idea in their head of the woman they want to marry/be serious about and it’s generally both traditional and feminine. You need to challenge him- blow a little hot and cold, ignore him every now and then and when you’re being nice try baking for him (ideally in a revealing apron). Give him a kiss and tell him he’s your hero. Do something a little bit seductive but then disappear for a bit and force him to persue you. All he’ll be thinking about is you. Do not be his female guy friend/on-call sex buddy, it will get you nowhere. Maybe have a night out together and dress in a way that is both classy and flattering. Let him see you as a desirable woman he has to fight a bit for.

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  • jennifer
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    Hello am Jeniffer from usa i just wanna thank Prophet suleman for what he has done for me at first i taught he was scam but until i just decided to follow my mind.i told him that my ex lover which i loved with all my heart left me for another all Prophet suleman did was to laugh and said he will be back to me in 3days time i taught he was lying on the 3rd day my ex called me and said he wanna see me,i was shocked then he came over to my place and started begging that he was bewitched,immediately i forgives him and now we are back and he his really madly in love with me.All thanks to Prophet suleman he indeed wonderful incise you wanna contact him here his is private mail prophetsuleman@hotmail.com ……………….. jennifer

  • Anonymous
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    “Then of course, there’s them being straightforward, and saying, “I’ve been hurt in the past and I’m afraid to get hurt again”. Pussies… that’s what they are. Once you’ve made it through one really bad heartbreak, you can survive another. Anyway… I digress.”

    Wow, you are one cold hearted cunt. You do know that men have feelings, right? Some go into a depression for months after a breakup, some contemplate suicide, some commit suicide. Ususally after the 3rd or 4th time they give the world to an ignorant, ungrateful bitch like you who was just waiting for someone better to come along. Granted, men like these have underlying issues such as low self esteem that make things like rejection a way bigger deal than it should be, but how can you be sure that someone doesnt have any issues. Many can feign confidence, and they must do a pretty good job if they got you to date them in the first place. Any man that is fine after a breakup, is insenitive and didnt give a shit about you anyway, if this has been your experience, maybe you should change your taste in men. Men who choose to never get attached are smart, they know that they will never get hurt again, and they shouldn’t be shamed for wanting sex and not a relationship, or rather needing sex.

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    Posted at 04:14h, 25 July Reply

    If you have been reading comment online about this spell caster Obudun Magonata it will be easy for me to tell you this that he couldn’t get any more really that he is already. I have come to a conclusion that the gift he possess and his good heart are the strongest most powerful thing i have ever known. He is the most straight forward person and most understanding anyone can ever meet. He did not even ask for my money he just asked me to get materials that will be needed for the spell and that was it. To start, i am an alcoholic and also have a strong addiction for gambling. I lost almost a 100 grand on internet gambling and still did not stop at the same time i was drinking heavily i got suspended form work for a duration of four years because of my drinking problem & my home, i destroyed it with by myself. I was unfaithful to my wife several times and she knew what was happening, i kept yelling over nothing on my girls. My addiction to gambling and drinking was complimentary i was losing a lot of money and still playing and was drinking a lot to calm my nerves. The addiction made me numb my feelings was gone. My wife , my girls saw me as a monster. I remember this day, my wife told me it as my second girl’s birthday the other week and my responds was “grown *** girls don’t celebrate their birthday and if she wanted to she can as well go get a job so she can use want she earn to celebrate every day of her life”. I still can’t believe i said that to my wife and on top of that her sister was right there. My wife was hurt it was written all over her face her face and she told me ” I don’t even know who you are any more where is the man that use to be the human shield of this family ? that man would never had said anything to hurt me or his kids you don’t even care that you are scaring h*** out of this girls? one more of this and i am out” there i told her i don’t need them they were weighing me down that there were burden on me. Those words still hunts me till this day i can believe i really said all those words. My wife left me and off course with the kids and foolish drunk me happily signed the divorce papers. Honestly i don’t know maybe it because i was drunk most of the the day, i felt go i get gambling and kept drinking losing big and winning little waking up with different ladies on my bed every morning. I was like this for two years, and i felt i was on top of the world but my friend made me see i had nothing anymore his wife won’t let him talk to me or hang out with me i gradually felt empty. At a point i saw i needed to get clean and actually committed to my self to AA off course it was hard to admit but with my friends help i got committed. I was six months clean from alcohol and gambling when i discovered my wife was see another man and they were going to get married. I was still in love with her. She was mad when she saw me, she wanted nothing to do with me, my girls hated me because of me they could not even look at me. I tried to get close and got a restraining order. I needed to be my family again i know i ruined it by myself i just wanted to make it up to them i failed then and i wanted to redeem myself to show them the man that use to be the human shield of his family is back i found him again. Obudun Magonata was the man that help me made it happen. It was the course of find a away to reach my wife i found this great spell caster. I did not have the privilege of meeting but like he told other he had helped, some of them met him in real time. He told me after the spell casting my wife , my child will love me like we never fell apart they would know i messed up but they will not care about it any more. I got the materials that was required of me by i got i mean i asked him to help me sending over to him the total cost because most of the materials where only found in the heart of Libya. Just after the spell process was concluded a package was sent to me i can’t disclose its content but it rest easy it could not even harm a fly. \He told me what to do with it and all he said will happen happened. I had my family back my wife , my child and i are once again that happy family i lost. I was still on suspension he told he i will get a call to come back to work and i did just after all he did for me. This spell caster he has something that saves lives. Am glad i met him all he promised me he did i wish i could me more grateful. I will leave his email contact like those other person that did in there comment or article which ever this is spiritsofobudunmagonata ‘ at ‘ ‘ yahoo ‘ ‘ dot ‘ ‘ com ///

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  • Gelina Mattson
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    I was with my ex for 3 years n 6mthns n he cheated on me so we split, before he left me, we were planing to get married in the future, I loved him so much but I became tired of him lying to me every time he opens his mouth, I went into search for help in the internet, I tried many different spells from almost every place locally as well as online and none of them worked, I almost gave up hope because I thought i will never see my lover again forever, one day i saw some testimony about this powerful spell caster Great zula i emailed him and i asked him to help me bring back my lover and he did A Lover Spell for me And after some days, my lover returned back to me I’d like to say that i got a positive result from (greatzula@yahoo.com) ever since i used his love spell, my lover have learned to appreciate me more and more day by day, and he doesn’t take me for granted,

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  • Allen Maria
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    Anyone who has been in an off and on relationship can tell how frustrating it is. Most especially when you love them so much like they know you so well to know that no matter the circumstance in which the break up is based on, you are always gonna make up and start from a fresh page with them. Almost like you can not do without them and your life revolves round them which is literally speaking true. My relationship with my boyfriend was one such off and on thing only that he was the one who constantly kept breaking my heart and each time i kept crawling back to him like i had no life aside from that i shared with him. We started dating backing in 2010 and from 2010 to late 2013 he played with my heart knowing i was always gonna come back to him. He knew he could break up with me to date other guys he feels like and at the end of the day come back asking for a second chance and believe me it was always a second chance to me. It was either he wants to date another guys or he’s telling me that he is not sure he can be in a relationship with apparently cos he needed to find out what he wants in life and discover who he is. Most people asked why didn’t i just move on and find someone who was more worthy of my love. Yes i should have done just that but i can give a thousand reason why i always go back to him at the end of this entire text it will fall back to this that “I LOVE HIM WITH MY LIFE”. I could not see my whole life without him in it so basically i was a fool in love. No matter how i convince myself to hate him and make him suffer for all he did to me it was impossible for me to accomplish. It was like he had something over him that always drew me back to him no matter what the condition might be. I was in pain. It hurt me down to my soul hat he was so indecisive about what he wanted for us all those time. For about 2 years and 8 months i was literally his bitch that he does what he like to and dispose. I really didn’t know if he did all he did on purpose or f it was as a result of his indecisive nature. What ever it was i didn’t like cos all i wanted was to spend the rest of my life with him. Blame me or don’t on the basis of stupidity what’s done is done i contacted a spell caster to help get him in the path i wanted for us. I did this early this year. I was not going to say anything until i was sure that what Akpe Osilama did was for real. I was not going to start misleading people to do what does not exist. I can tell you without now doubt that the spell worked for me and also i have seen a couple of comment Online about Akpe Osilama it is obvious that all he does is make people lives better in every way and bring people out from what ever hellhole they where in. I should tell you that he is one of the only few if not the only one true spell caster that can help you out in any condition. Not cos i saw a couple of comments Online like that of Nicholas Zachary but because all these comments were written by real life people who have gone and seen the authenticity of Akpe Osilama. I asked Akpe Osilama to put my boyfriend in the right path i wanted for the two of us, to help kill that indecisive nature he had in him to make him mine and mine only forever. You should all know he did just that for me and the spell he cast changed our lives in ways you can’t imagine and the best part is that he didn’t take i single pound from me. I only gave him something out of my discretion as a sign of gratefulness for what he did for me. However Akpe Osilama asked me to get some materials which we used for the spell casting process. I will be opened with you all at first, i thought he wanted to use the required materials as a medium to get money form me but it turned out that he made it clear to me that without those materials it will me impose to do any spell just like cooking without food stuff. Even then he told me to either get the materials to temple by myself or parcel it over to him or to send him the money to get the materials for me if i can’t find them. I had to send the money to him cos it was even more less expensive that way. You should also know he is trust worthy you can trust him with anything. Here is his personal contact got it Online when i contacted him thought i should also leave it here maybe for those who need to contact Akpe Osilama {chiefpriestakpeosilamaspellcast at yahoo dot com}

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  • Natasha
    Posted at 16:18h, 24 September Reply

    robinson.buckler(@)yahoo . com is a wonderful spell caster. Very trustworthy, My husband cheated on me for Almost for three years. he ignore me for several months and left me with nothing, but i am happy today that Robinson brought my husband back, I am so happy, Now my husband is all mine again. I can now say I’m happy again. Great spell from Robinson buckler, Robinson is genuine. I truly believe in him and his spells. he is a professional. I really enjoyed the result which i got, his love spell is marvelous, he is truly gifted, his love spell has brought me happiness, I am extremely pleased, it worked out to my taste, he has the most powerful love spell, I recommend his love spell to anyone who is ready to get his or her lover back

  • Thania Montana
    Posted at 12:56h, 12 October Reply

    I am just letting you all know that I have had posititve results from kasalovespell(@)hotmail.com . My husband has been at home everyday and has been staying out of the bars! things are now better for the two of us. I truly thank him for this! Your spell kit for the return your lover is very powerful! I was working with someone else in the past but, your help is truly appreciated, I will always come to you! …..Thania Montana

  • sandra
    Posted at 07:15h, 09 February Reply

    After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was
    emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a love doctor called Dr. Goko the love doctor which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about this particular love doctor. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he

    restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Vera, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email. After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever .Dr Goko you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine love doctor, Try him anytime, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on ( dr.gokosspiritualcaster@ gmail .com).he is the best love doctor that can help you with your problems relationship.

  • sandra
    Posted at 07:17h, 09 February Reply

    After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was
    emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a love doctor called Dr. Goko the love doctor which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about this particular love doctor. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he
    restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Vera, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email. After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever .Dr Goko you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine love doctor, Try him anytime, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on ( dr.gokosspiritualcaster(@)gmail.com).he is the best love doctor that can help you with your problems relationship.

  • Theresa Addison
    Posted at 21:29h, 20 February Reply

    My ex-boyfriend dumped me 5 months ago after I caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don’t know what to do, so I visited the internet for help and I saw a testimony on how a spell caster (Prophet Lucky) help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problems to him. He cast a spell for me and assure me of 2 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the second day my boyfriend came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you for helping me to get my love back and your love spell is truely perfect, you are truly talented and gifted i will continue to publish your name on the net because of the good work you are doing.If you need his help contact him now through his website: https://luckyspelltemple.wordpress.com or Email: luckyspelltemple @gmail. com

  • Holly Hagan
    Posted at 19:11h, 03 April Reply

    if you have any issue in your relationship. contact dr.mac@yahoo. com his help is absolutely wonderful!

  • Cendi Botti
    Posted at 09:19h, 08 May Reply

    I want the world to know Dr.Mack has the perfect solution to relationship issues and marriage problems. The main reason why i contacted Dr.Mack was for solution on how i can get my husband back because in recent times i have read some testimonies on the internet which some people has written about Dr Mack and i was so pleased and i decided to seek for help from him and he did a perfect job by making my husband to come back to me and beg for forgiveness. I will not stop publishing this testimony because of the good work he is doing. I will drop his contact for the usefulness of those that needs his help. His Email,,,DR.MAC@YAHOO. COM You can contact him today and get your Ex Lover back

  • Corinne Carver
    Posted at 18:15h, 01 July Reply

    My boyfriend left me for another girl last month, he was head over heels with a woman he met at an out of town wedding. Sure he slept with her, but denied it never happened. I knew about the woman. He Treated her like a queen and treated me like dirt. she didn’t know about us until I answered my boyfriends phone. Don’t know if my boyfriend intended to date us both at the same time. He claimed he never spoke to her again, but he sent her 2 cards. We lived together for 6 years. I broke up with him because he wasn’t honest and can’t stop cheating. he won’t admit that he was cheating on me. I hate it that I wasn’t strong enough to move on when i broke it off with him, he just cut his feelings off like that, I truly love him and want him to be my feature Husband, i thought about it and i saw that the only means to get him back was to use love spell which i did by contacting Dr_mack@yahoo. com, he gave me confidence that my boyfriend will come back to me and just he said my boyfriend came back, i thought i was dreaming but i realized that my boyfriend is back for good and he wants to stay with me forever.

  • Ruth Perry
    Posted at 20:05h, 15 September Reply

    As a desperate lady who recently separated from her husband, I have seen a lot of affirmative testimony online posted by people who got back their lovers via love spell. I also witnessed a breathtaking spell work on my BFF that brought back her boyfriend. Utilizing the opportunity at hand was the only option left because I strongly believed Dr. Philip can equally help me. Via Dr Philip’s email :drphilipspelltemple@gmail. com, I explained how my heart was broken by my husband whom I have been with for 8 years. He left me 5 months ago saying he no long derive fun in our relationship. While the 2 days spell was ongoing, Dr. Philip disclosed to me that someone else had a love spell on my ex which made him lose interest in me. But through Dr Philip’s spell, she finally disappeared from his life forever. I’m overjoyed because I have my husband into my arms again and a testimony we share every day. Thanks to my BFF for the encouragement and to Dr. Philip for the genuine spell cast on us.

  • Marie
    Posted at 19:36h, 09 October Reply

    Thank you for the absolutely amazing spell cast . It has helped me understand many things about the man I love and I am sure that with the help of your spiritual work I will be able to secure his heart. Thank you Dr. Todd from the bottom of my heart! e-mail (manifestspellcast@gmail. com or manifestspellcast@yahoo. com)

    Maria

  • Elizabeth valdivia
    Posted at 16:16h, 21 November Reply

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  • Lesley
    Posted at 22:46h, 21 November Reply

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    Lesley (Arlington, TX)

  • Elizabeth valdivia
    Posted at 12:21h, 22 November Reply

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  • Kristina Allen
    Posted at 08:33h, 01 December Reply

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  • catherina
    Posted at 01:41h, 14 January Reply

    My boyfriend left me for another girl. I needed him back desperately because i loved him so much. I became very worried and needed help. as i was browsing through the internet, I came across a website that suggested that Dr.Mack can help get ex back fast and stop a divorce or breakup and so on , So I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a (return Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my boyfriend came back to me crying and begging for my forgiveness. Today I’m so happy and i want to recommend this great spell caster to anyone that truly needs an urgent solution to his or her broken relationships and marriage. Simply contact the great “Dr.Mack” If you have any problem contact him and i guarantee you that he will help you., Thank you Dr Mack for saving my broken relationships and brought my boyfriend back to me!” email him at: {dr.mack201@ gmail. com} ,

  • Tom Parry
    Posted at 03:16h, 01 February Reply

    Anyone else wish spellcasters would have some self respect and get a proper job, instead of littering feeds with their desperate claptrap?

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