All posts in Sex & Relationships
Soca Artistes: The New Relationship Gurus
I eat, sleep, and breathe relationships. I’m fascinated by this thing called love – the magical moment when two hearts meet. That enchanted period of time when the sun shines …
You’re the Only Unmarried Sibling: Does that Mean You Should Get Married?
What does it feel like, when all of your siblings are married, and you’re still single? It feels good – especially when I see the difference between my nephew and …
Pum Pum Etiquette and Love: How Soon is too Soon?
“If you know yuh nah go run de nookie, doh waste mi time.” I have a few friends who unofficially live by this mantra. But how does it fit into …
Til Sex Do Us Part
We love sex. On the hood of the car in the pouring rain; at my writing desk under the threat of deadlines; or in the shower just before breakfast – …
Why I Started Masturbating in My 30s
The word was simple, but it carried a lot of meaning for my friend when she read it in the 12 a.m. text I had sent. She knew its meaning, …
How I Met My Wife on Twitter: A Bajan and Trini Connection
Online romance seems to be taboo amongst traditionally minded people in the Caribbean. “Be careful!” “Do you really know this person?” These are some of the mutterings you’ll hear. But …
Making Love to Someone’s Mind: The Forgotten Factor
What is sex really? Is it just an act driven by pheromones and hormones? Or is it an experience that we have the power and the pleasure to control? And …
Should You Let Your Lover Tell You How to Dress?
“When you have a little girl, it’s like how can you teach her that you’re in control of her body? If I teach her that I’m in charge of whether …
My Jamaican Guy: Why I Don’t Want to Be the Future Mrs Usain Bolt
Usain my love, the words I type aren’t meant to discredit you in any way. It’s just me thinking things through…before we get serious. Failure to do so is why …
Rethinking Marriage: Breaking Socially Acceptable Boundaries
Imagine a person trying to draw water from a well using a bucket. You would expect her to use a bucket, but lo, hers is riddled with holes. She …
