All posts by Dzifa Job

Self-help books tend to be directed solely at women, so I was fairly surprised, a little amused, and definitely intrigued when I came across the book ‘The Maxims of Manhood: …

Sex is a drug, and in today’s liberal culture, where hooking up and friends with benefits situations dominate, celibacy has become an almost irrelevant practice. In fact, on more than …

“As long as yuh cooking and jamming… is all good.” This was the cheeky statement from one of my male friends, when I started a discussion on Facebook about traditional …

Bad timing. We’ve all heard this being pinned as the reason why a relationship didn’t work or couldn’t get off the ground. However, is timing really a b*tch when trying …

As a single, Trini woman, living abroad, I am not afraid to acknowledge that if I lived in Trinidad I wouldn’t be single. In fact, I often joke with my …

If you listen closely to the chatter of a group of close girlfriends, the conversation will eventually turn to men, sex and love. At least one of the women present …

I was never under the illusion that I was a gift from the stork or that my parents didn’t have sex. By the time I hit puberty, I knew more …