All posts by Anthony La Borde

pumpumetiquette

Pum Pum Etiquette and Love: How Soon is too Soon?

“If you know yuh nah go run de nookie, doh waste mi time.” I have a few friends who unofficially live by this mantra. But how does it fit into …

supportivecouple

Does Your Relationship Add Value to Your Life?

  What’s the point of being with someone, if they can’t teach you anything? Most people like to look for a partner who thinks just like them. They want someone …

babynames

Hi, My Name is Oasis: My Parents didn’t Love Me

When it comes to choosing a name for their precious, little gem, most parents have at least six to nine months to make a decision. You’d think that between all …

John John (John Francis)

John John: Cita’s Grandson does Soul

Growing up, everyone had their own experience with music, whether it was by learning to play the piano in primary school, playing pan in secondary school, or simply drumming on …

robinmaharaj

An Ode to Robin Maharaj: T&T’s Best Weatherman

In my nearly thirty years here… (sh*t I gettin’ ole boy), I have seen my fair share of weather forecasters. There are the boring weathermen, the ones who just try …

agegaps

Age gaps in Relationships: Weird or Workable?

So, one night you’re chillin’ in 51 Degrees (or wherever you lime), and you bounce up your homeboy or homegirl real wining up with some geriatric, and he or she …

guycode

The Guy Code: Honour among Men

*Warning: Some women do not like the term pussy. It is used a few times in this article. No disrespect is intended (to women). Ladies, have you ever been in …

MarisaAlbert

Marisa Albert: Take it to the Cleaners

You wouldn’t be surprised to hear a 21-year-old talk about wanting to start a business, but starting a dry cleaning business? That isn’t often mentioned. But, six years ago, at …

Internationalwomensday

Do Trinis Really Acknowledge Women’s Rights and Achievements?

So Carnival Tuesday, March 8, is also International Women’s Day (IWD for the cool folks). Somehow, the Editor-in-Chief, Karel, decided it would be a good idea for ME – who …

oldschoolads

Blast from the past: Old ads that make you say “wheey”

I stumbled across an old Stag commercial a few weeks ago, and learned that Stag was actually “the people’s beer”, before some chauvinist marketing manager decided that women don’t drink …